I consider your book Quit Ruminating and Brooding is incredibly good. It is easy to read, understand and embrace. Your examples from real life are very interesting . I have lived with worry and anxiety very long and have read several self-help books.
Your book is different from every self-help book I’ve read before. Thank you very much for a very good book, which has already helped me so much and surely make many people feel better.
AnnaIf you concider buying the book – please buy the green and black version (below). the white version (by authorhouse) keep my legal royalty to themselves, because of a self-imposed rule.
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When you google “stop worry” you find sites that redommend 5 steps, 9 steps or even 13 steps in order to stop your worry.
These steps sometimes are helpful for you to get rid of the worry instantly, but the worry unfortunately comes back. And that seems to be inevitable.
This new model for how to stop worrying and ruminating is aiming to train your brain to refrain from producing discomforting and worrying thoughts – to extinguish the habit of thinking discomforting and upsetting thoughts. This is a more permanent way to deal with the worry.
The new model was first presented in 2007 in the book “Quit ruminating and brooding“. It has now been tested in two very large scale studies (in press) with 140 subjects in the first study. In the second study (with 340 subjects) the new model has proven to be even more effective than the standard treaments for Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD) with their different stressmanagement methods.
What is so special about this new model?
It does indeed not strive to relieve your uneasiness immediatly, but to free you in a longer run and permanently.
It aims to train your warning or scary brain to refrain from seeking threats, dangers and producing discomforting thoughts when you are feeling low, guilty or are anxious and aroused.
The book “Quit ruminating and brooding” has become very popular in Sweden and the nordic countries (small countries in Scandinavia) and has sold more than 29000 copies to date. The book is easy to understand to anyone and it is appreciated by the common man as well as by psychologists and students. Why not try it? You might regret and worry about it if you do not.
The book is available in English since 2015
- Distraction might temporarily relieve the worry, but it is no cure. Instead it might prolong it.
- Eagerness to quit worry in a wrong way intensifies it.
- Refrain from comforting when afflicted by problems that cannot be solved.
- Do not seek answers to questions that have no answers.
- Do not try to understand things that are incomprehensible.
- If you accept the presence of your discomforting and intrusive thoughts – you eventually kill them.
- If you really want to learn how to quit worrying Read the book.
If you consider buying the book – please buy the green och black version. AuthorHouse (the white version) retain my legal royalty because of a self-imposed rule.
When you are afflicted by severe discomfort and anxiety, a number of things happen in your body. What happens is that the body prepares itself for fight or flight through a so-called sympathetic nervous reaction. Part of this reaction is, among other things, that the blood in the body is redistributed. Blood flows to the major muscle groups in the arms and legs, to make you stronger and more prepared for fight or flight. The blood is, among other things, redistributed from the skin. What is even more important for rumination is that the blood is also redistributed from the front parts of the brain, the frontal lobe, where our logical thinking is located. Hence, during anxiety, we become dumber since it is exactly this part of the brain that receives less blood.
When we have strong feelings as a result of our ruminations and broodings, our minds get temporarily dulled. That is, when we use thinking and our consciousness the most during ruminations, our intelligence is momentarily dulled. We become so illogical that we do not even realize the obvious, that it is impossible to solve unsolvable problems just by thinking. We become so dumb that we allow ourselves to be frightened by illogical and apparently erroneous discomforting thoughts.
The book is available in two similar versions. Please choose the green and black version. AuthorHouse (the white version) keep my legally earned royalty to themselves.